PARENT FOR A DAY
Over
the Christmas season, I spent a lot of time with my friend of ten years, Alan.
Alan is a single dad with two charming mini-humans, named Blueberry (2.5 years
old) and Max (8). A few weeks before Christmas, Alan planned a weekend of
Christmas activities. We started with the cookie dough Christmas ornaments (you
can check out the tutorial
here), and the next day we planned to go buy a tree and ornaments. The
weekend would wrap up with a visit to Santa Claus at the mall. Ornament night
went off without a hitch, but the morning of the tree-and-Santa day, Alan woke
up incredibly sick. As a single parent, being bedridden is a particularly challenging
situation, and Alan was determined to follow through with the planned
adventures, even if he had to slouch over the steering wheel like some sort of
zombie. I couldn't allow this, of course, so I did what any insane person would
do: I offered to take over the parenting for the weekend.
I
may need to reiterate here for new readers: I am NOT the mother-y type. I have
never fawned over a newborn, carted a doll around in a toy stroller, nor have I
really been in charge of a child's welfare, other than babysitting as a teen.
But I couldn't let the kids' Christmas fun be cancelled, so I said I’d be
substitute parent for the day.
THE SEARCH FOR THE TREE
Max
and I spent the afternoon tracking down a purple Christmas tree. It was my own
fault for mentioning they make them in purple. The day started out full of
energy and excitement, but as each store in the area turned out to be purple
tree-less, the adventure became more arduous.
The
first store, Max ran alongside me 'til we found the tree section, only
to discover they were sold out of purple trees. We decided to hit
another store.
The
second store, Max walked a few steps behind me to the tree section. No
purple trees. I showed him a white one: nope, wouldn't do. We decided
to hit another store.
By the
fourth store, Max fell asleep on the drive and I stood outside the van for ten
minutes when we stopped, reluctant to wake him. He was crabby, but he got up
and I held his hand so I could basically drag him through the store.
When we rounded the corner and saw the purple Christmas trees, stacked and ready to go, Max's face lit up. We did a dramatic high five and I hugged him and spun in a giant circle. I did it! I'd made a kid's Christmas wish come true! I was an AWESOME substitute parent! Of course, I was only half-way through the day…
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