Today the world learned that Chip Wilson, Lululemon’s
founder,
blames women’s fat thighs for the pilling of fabric in his products.
In a nutshell, Wilson stated that the fact that Lulu’s pants
have been disturbingly see-through and have major pilling problems is all
caused by women whose bodies don’t ‘suit’ his product. In short, he’s saying
that fat chicks stretch out and ruin the pants.
You might think I’m reading a bit too much into this, except
that we’ve heard similar comments from Chip in the past, and past employees
have remarked on the fact that snubbing plus-sized customers is part of the
Lululemon gig. I’d have a harder time believing this if I hadn’t known some
Lulu employee’s in my life, and was also familiar with their rules for
employees: for example, employees have to be engaged in a certain amount of
physical activity each week and must account for it. I had asked what happens
if you sustain an injury or are unable to keep up (because of family
responsibilities, school, etc), and the response was basically, “You just have
to keep up.”
FIT VERSUS FAT
I’m not saying that fitness is the same thing as fat-phobia,
but the line can get very thin between the two. When obsessive exercising is a
common symptom of anorexia, for example, one can see why a strict exercise
regime can be dangerous, particularly when enforced by the fear of losing one’s
job.
MOM VERSUS DAUGHTER
Here’s one of the reasons why Lululemon’s fat-phobia really
bothers me: size does not equal fitness. A few years ago, my mother and I went
into Lulu to try on some clothes. My mom had trouble fitting comfortably into
Lulu’s sizes, and found that they didn’t really make her size: she’s at the high end of the size chart without hitting
the ‘plus’ category. Meanwhile, I fit their small sizes without complaint. But
the kicker is this: at that time, my mom was running 5km a day, lifting
weights, and practicing pilates. In comparison, I was rollerderby-ing twice a
week, chain smoking, and living off Starbucks lattes. If the zombie apocalypse
had broken out right there at Lululemon, my mother would have been safely
hidden in the hills while I would have likely had a coronary just before the zombies
descended upon me…I’d have died even faster if there had been any stairs
involved, of that I’m certain.
So you see, some critics will defend Lulu’s standpoint by
saying that they have a right to want ‘fit’ people wearing fitness clothes. We’ll
ignore the fact that it’s hard to get fit if you aren’t welcome into the
fitness world…let’s just look at the fact that my mother, training for a
marathon, felt shunned from Lululemon because the Goddess made her a 5’9”
glamazon warrior; meanwhile, her skinny-but-comparatively-couch-potato daughter
was invited to wear whatever she liked, because her butt was tiny.
That’s effed up.
MY MOM HAS EARNED HER YOGA PANTS.
I’d like us all to stop equating fitness with size. Our
obsession with a person’s girth, both as a measurement of esthetics AND
fitness, is irrational. It’s demeaning and it devalues all the hard work put in
by people like my mom, who I’m immensely proud of and who I know is gorgeous
AND healthy. I’ve heard people today saying, “Lycra is a privilege, not a right”;
if I accept that premise, my mother has earned her lycra more than any
genetically-gifted 19 year-old who does some light jogging and just has a great
metabolism. My mom and her body have:
-birthed a baby in the backwoods of rural British Columbia
-survived 16-hour workdays when she was director of a major
corporation
-healed after tearing her shoulder in a jogging accident;
healed after a massive hematoma from a biking accident; and healed after
downhill skiing into a tree while
pregnant (and didn’t miscarry me, by the way)
-quit smoking the same month she found out I’d started smoking
at age 18
-prepared herself for marathon-length running
-walked herself out of her one and only surgical procedure,
refusing a wheelchair
-taken her dogs on 5km walks every single night, despite a
torn meniscus in her knee
…I think she’s earned the right to wear any space-aged
material she wants, quite frankly.
So I’m boycotting Lululemon. Mom and I will find some nifty
workout wear somewhere else. And if the clothes don’t suit us, I refuse to hear
that it’s somehow the fault of our bodies. If the clothes aren’t made to lovingly
embrace the superheroine that is my mother, then they’re not something I want
to buy.
(And if you agree, and want to support women of all sizes being loved, represented, and accepted, please do check out the
Muffin Top Movie kickstarter. Seriously, you can make a difference.)
